When preparing for a baby, a mother-to-be's focus is often on what the baby will need. The last few weeks before baby is due are often a flurry of shopping for clothing, cribs, bottles and burp cloths. But it is just as important that mom prepare for her own stay in the hospital.
Time Frame
According to BabyCenter, an expectant mother should pack her bag by about her eighth month of pregnancy and place it in an easily accessible place. That way, you are not hunting for your favorite pair of socks in between contractions. Be sure to let your partner know where you store the bag.
Considerations
What you pack will depend on what kind of birth you are having. Keep your birthing ball nearby if you plan to use one. If you're having a water birth, pack a bathing suit for you and your partner. If you're having a c-section, you will most likely be in the hospital for a longer stay, so you will need more clothes than if you are having a natural childbirth. Additionally, if you are having a c-section, you may want to pack a loose dress to wear home, since even elastic pants can hurt a new incision.
Paperwork
Before you deliver your baby, the hospital will have some of its own business to take care of. Include in your hospital bag your insurance card, identification and any pre-admission paperwork the hospital may have sent. Additionally, if you are using a birthing plan, be sure to include that in your bag. Bring a large envelope or file folder that you can also use to store any loose paperwork the hospital sends home with you.
Essentials
Most mothers will spend three to five days in the hospital. You will need several comfortable night gowns that you don't mind getting dirty, since you will be bleeding after delivery. The gowns should also open in the front if you plan to breastfeed. You will also need warm socks or slippers, and a robe. The hospital will provide toiletries and sanitary pads, but bring your own if they will make you more comfortable. Pack any comfort items you may want, including your own pillow, photographs or music that will help you to relax through contractions. A camera is a must for most families. Mints or hard candies will help keep your mouth from getting dry during labor. Pack any books or magazines you will want to read during your stay, including a journal, baby book or book about infant care. Bring an outfit to wear home, keeping in mind you will still be sporting a pregnancy belly--bring something that fit when you were about six months pregnant. Your baby will need a car seat and a going-home outfit that includes a hat and receiving blanket. For your partner, pack a change of clothes and some snacks. He will also need a list of phone numbers for people to call after the baby is born.
What Not to Bring
You do no not need to bring the entire contents of your nursery, particularly if you live a short ride from the hospital. The hospital will provide a pacifier, diapers and wipes and a breast pump, if one is necessary. Also, leave home any expensive jewelry or cash. You also do not need to bring your medications--the hospital will provide what you need if your doctor wants you to continue your regular medications.
