The U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics reports that people over the age of 25 who have a college degree will earn almost twice as much money as those who have only a high school diploma. If you wish you could go back to college, but think it is impossible because you have a family, you are wrong. While it will be challenging, with the right mindset, planning and support you can earn your degree and provide a better life for your family.
Step 1
Start small. Enroll in just one or two classes your first semester, especially if you work outside of the home as well. This will allow you to acclimate yourself to the courses, studying and tests without being overwhelmed. If you find that only a class or two is an easy adjustment, you may wish to take on a heavier load in your second semester.
Step 2
Create a detailed schedule. Planning your days from the time you get up until you hit the sheets will help you fit in and remember all of your important tasks. Make sure you schedule as much family time as you can as well as downtime for yourself. Reconnecting with your loved ones and refreshing yourself will give you the energy and stamina you need to follow through on your tasks.
Step 3
Allow for the unexpected. Even with the best laid plans, there will be days when the car will not start or your little one has a fever, for example, so flexibility is vital. If you anticipate such events and roll with them, you won't be thrown for a loop should they happen. Simply deal with the crisis and start over again the next day.
Step 4
Take advantage of technology. There are schools that solely offer online classes, which may be the best option for you. Even if you do not want to take classes exclusively online, most community colleges and universities offer web-based curriculum so that you can participate in some of your classes from the comfort of your home.
Step 5
Ask for help. You are not superhuman. Everyone has limits and needs some assistance from time to time. Delegate chores to your children. Let your spouse or partner pick up some of the slack. Call on your extended family, friends and neighbors for help with childcare, cooking and other necessities whenever you feel frazzled. Leaning on your network of loved ones will allow you to make your dream of a college degree a reality.
References
- U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics: Working in the 21st Century
- Market Watch: Tips for Grown-Ups Heading Back To School
- Learn Source: Balancing Your Family and School Life
- University of Phoenix: Online Education May Help Balance Marriage and Family Life
- Central Piedmont Community College: Parents in College Must Juggle Responsibilities
