From shyness to a lack of social skills, there are any number of reasons why some kids have trouble making friends. No parent wants to see his child go through life without playmates, but many might feel there's not much they can do. Even a little bit of help and encouragement can go a long way towards helping your child make and keep new friends.
Step 1
Listen to what your child says about her efforts to make friends. Pick up on subtle cues that may help identify the problem, such as the way she approaches classmates or the kinds of subjects she talks to them about.
Step 2
Coach your child on how to deal with specific social situations, such as how to act at a birthday party or on the playground. Role play a specific situation and see how your child would handle it. Offer suggestions and tips on what to say and how to approach other kids.
Step 3
Offer a variety of activities and events that encourage your child to meet other kids. Organize a slumber party and help him invite members of his class at school or church. Plan a party with interactive games. Take your child to the park during peak hours and encourage him to play on the playground and interact with other kids.
Step 4
Listen in on your child's interaction with other kids. Take note of anything that could make other children feel uncomfortable or put off, such as aggressive behavior. Teach your child how to change those awkward or inappropriate behaviors in order to be more compatible with other kids.
Step 5
Enroll your child in a sports team or club. Find a sport or activity she's interested in and sign her up with kids around her same age. Encourage her to try it out even if she's nervous or insists on not going back after the first time.
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