Although college can be an exciting time, it can also be stressful. Dealing with tests, a new environment, assignments, new roommates and being homesick can all make the experience difficult to handle. Having someone to talk to, and to blow off steam with, can ease some of that stress. Fortunately, despite your demanding schedule, there are many ways you can establish new friendships while in college.
Step 1
Attend a student orientation. The KidsHealth website explains that this is a good way to see what types of clubs and organizations your school offers. In addition, you will be able to meet students from your classes and dorm.
Step 2
Ask to be introduced to your friends' friends. The FamilyEducation website states that the more people you are exposed to, the better your chances are of finding people you can be friends with.
Step 3
Consult the campus counseling department regarding peer groups. These are typically full people going through the same situations as you. Not only can this be comforting and ease stress at college, it can help you form lasting friendships.
Step 4
Host a party with lots of fun games and food. According to the FamilyEducation website, not many college students can resist free goodies and entertainment.
Step 5
Attend an open-mike night or join a club. Even if you don't actually enjoy or participate in the activity, it is a good way to meet new people.
Tips and Warnings
- Establishing friendships is not a quick process. In fact, the FamilyEducation website states that it can be intimidating and overwhelming. Even if you are a naturally shy person, try to step out of your comfort zone for just the first few weeks of college so that you don't end up isolating yourself. Be nice, ask people lots of questions and think up conversation starters before you attend a social event.
- The KidsHealth website warns that some students gravitate toward partying, oversleeping, alcohol, drugs or smoking to deal with loneliness. Unfortunately, all of these can interfere with the ability to make friends, do assignments and keep up grades. In extreme cases, it can even mean getting kicked out of school---or even in trouble with the law.
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