Many seniors choose to live in assisted living facilities. This living arrangement offers round-the-clock security and access to medical care; however, residents have more privacy, freedom and independence than with other long-term care options. If one of your parents moves into an assisted living facility, you can find ways to stay involved and help with the transition.
Step 1
Make frequent visits to spend time with your parent at the facility. If she is sad about leaving her home, listen to her feelings without minimizing them. It is normal for individuals to go through a mourning period when they give up their independence to move into assisted living. If you live far away and cannot visit often, call or send emails on a regular basis to stay in touch.
Step 2
Go out of your way to become acquainted with the staff. Get to know the nurses, aides and assistants that help the residents at the facility. They may be able to alert you to changes in your parent's behavior or issues of concern.
Step 3
Help your parent keep his surroundings organized and pleasant. He may need help adjusting to a small living space and finding a place to keep things. Encourage him to part with items he doesn't need. Help him display pictures and personal items to make his new surroundings feel like home.
Step 4
Encourage your parent to socialize and participate in group activities. Most assisted living facilities offer recreation and social activities. It is important for her to make friends and interact with others. If she is hesitant about participating, offer to go with her to help her feel more comfortable.
Step 5
Offer to provide transportation for appointments and errands. Most assisted living facilities have bus service for shopping and appointments, but your parent would probably enjoy an occasional outing with you. You should also pick him up to bring him to important family events and visits.
Tips and Warnings
- Your parent may voice concerns and complaints about the facility. Do not assume that the issues are simply part of the adjustment process. Take her concerns seriously and try to work together to find a solution. If there is a major problem with the facility that you cannot resolve, be prepared to help her find another place to live.
