You've just learned the happy news, and now you and your partner are beginning to discuss baby names. It's a fun, exciting exercise ... until your partner drops a name you wouldn't give a dog --- or rolls his eyes at the name you've always wanted. Later, mothers, in-laws, co-workers and more will contribute their unsolicited opinions, and you'll begin to realize that choosing a baby name is no easy task. The Family Education website recommends that you keep foremost in mind the person who will carry this name for life: your baby.
Step 1
Say it aloud. It's important to be aware of the sound your prospective name will make, the BabyCenter website explains, particularly when combined with your last name. Longer last names tend to combine well with shorter first names; longer first names go well shorter last names. Be aware of odd or harsh sounds, as well as vowels that may blend or confuse your child's first and last names.
Step 2
Strike a compromise. You might have had a baby name picked out since you were a child, but it's probably more important to be able to compromise with your partner. Inevitably, there will be some names you both like. The Baby Name Central website suggests creative solutions, such as delegating girl names to one partner, boy names to the other. Or make a list of 10 names, and allow each partner to eliminate nine of the 10. The two names that remain are the baby's first and middle names.
Step 3
Consider the meanings of names. Although BabyCenter reports that most people don't often discuss the derivation of their names, choosing a name that embodies a quality you admire could be meaningful to your child. And if you're torn between two possible names, a name's meaning could ultimately be the deciding factor.
Step 4
Discuss family names. The names of your relatives and ancestors could open up a broader variety of baby names for you and your partner, BabyCenter advises. But don't feel pressured to saddle your child with a family name you find embarrassing or unattractive. Listen to the suggestions of family members, but don't commit to anything beforehand.
Tips and Warnings
- Keep the name to yourself. BabyCenter suggests waiting until the baby is born to divulge the name. This will cut back on unwanted feedback and complaints about your choice.
- Avoid names that are "too cute" or that could be shortened in an embarrassing way, advises Family Education. For, example, if your last name is Barr, don't name your daughter Candace unless you want her to be called "Candy Barr." Similarly, BabyCenter advises keeping an eye on initials: Zachary Ian Taylor can be all too easily turned into "ZIT."
