Effective listening skills are important in many areas of life. Schoolwork, careers and friendships all require listening skills for the best results. It is wise to start developing listening skills in childhood. Children should learn the difference between "hearing," which is passive, and "listening," which is active. You can enhance your child's listening skills by following a few basic tips.
Eye Contact
Make eye contact with the person who is speaking to fully absorb what is being said. This is an effective listening tool, according to KidsGoals.com. Ask your child to practice making eye contact with you while you are speaking at first, and then with others when he feels more comfortable.
Reading and Repeating
Reading aloud to a child helps teach listening skills, says KeepKidsHealthy.com. Read a passage from a book she enjoys, then have her repeat back what you read. It doesn't have to be word for word, but reciting the basic premise and a few details will show she is tuned in to what you are saying.
No "Barking"
Constantly saying things like, "Why don't you listen?" or "Listen to me when I talk to you," can put negative pressure on your kids and derail your intentions, according to the Exforsys Inc. website. Be patient, and get your child's attention first, then state your wishes.
Lead By Example
The best way to teach your child effective listening skills is to be an excellent listener yourself. Exhibit all of the qualities of a good listener in your dealings with her and others. You'll find that the need for you to actually teach listening skills will diminish.
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