You are true buddies. He is the friend you count on to have fun with, to cheer you when you are down and keep you company in lonely or boring times. This great guy is your close friend, but now you want more. There has not been romance between you but you would like to change that. The problem is he is oblivious to your desire. Use a few womanly tips to get your guy friend to see you in a new light.
Step 1
Engineer time to be alone with your guy friend. He is not likely to see you as a romantic partner if you are always in a crowd of friends. Invite him to "hang out" so you can talk or involve him in something the two of you can enjoy together. The idea is to spend more time with him doing something fun.
Step 2
Pay him a sincere compliment. The All Women Talk website recommends flattering him to get him hooked on you. Find something you really like and tell him. For example, you could say how the shirt he's wearing brings out the green in his eyes. He probably isn't used to this type of behavior from you as a friend so you are bound to get him thinking.
Step 3
Dress in soft, feminine clothing when you are with him. Don't let him forget you are a girl. It does not hurt to show a little skin. Play up your assets whether it be your legs, cleavage or mid-drift.
Step 4
Invite him to watch you do something at which you excel. You want him to notice and admire your talents, so have him watch you play softball or perform complicated pieces on piano. Always play up your strengths to garner his attraction.
Step 5
Maintain an upbeat attitude around your intended new love. Smile and laugh to show him how much you enjoy being around him. Many girls make the mistake of acting depressed around the guy they want but are afraid they cannot have. The man will notice if you act in this needy manner, but it will not be to your advantage.
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