If you're eager to meet people and make friends, start out by making yourself approachable. When you're around new people, display an upbeat, friendly attitude. Smiling, making eye contact, asking questions and giving sincere compliments can be great conversations starters and show that you take an interest in the people around you. While this may be difficult if you're shy or introverted, making an extra effort to appear friendly and approachable can break the ice and help you take the first steps toward lasting friendship.
Step 1
Participate in a volunteer project. The U.S. Department of Health and Human Service's National Mental Health Information Center recommends volunteering as a way to meet people and make friends. "When volunteering, you are already with a group of people with a common interest," the Center explains.
Step 2
Take an enrichment course. Enrichment classes, like volunteer projects, can put you in touch with a group of people who share your interests. Contact your local college, art museum or community theater to see if they offer any programs that interest you.
Step 3
Join in discussions on the Internet. If you feel uncomfortable approaching people in person, find locally-based Internet discussion groups and post regularly. Once you feel comfortable with the group, plan a meet-up for the members.
Step 4
Make the first move. When you're in a social situation, don't wait for new friends to come to you. Approach people you find interesting, introduce yourself and strike up a conversation. If you hit it off, make sure to get you new acquaintance's contact information.
Step 5
Follow up after you meet someone new. Once you connect with a potential new friend, call or email him afterward to make plans to socialize again.
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