Behavior problems in children are not just seen in the household, but are translated to other social settings such as school and peer activities. These behaviors, such as tantrums, can lead to frustration and a feeling of hopelessness not just for the parents but the children as well. Parents might find they have no control, no hope and no sense of change. However, with the right methods and attitude, behavior modification can be achieved. According to The University of Michigan Health System "if you want to change an unwanted behavior, it helps to first understand why your child is doing it."
Identification
Behavior problems can manifest themselves in a variety of different ways. Tantrums, whining, defiance, arguing and fighting can be some of the more common behavior problems parents experience. These behaviors occur for many reasons and having a better understanding of where they come from can guide a parent to seek out the more suitable solutions.
Causes
Causes for why children misbehave have long been debated. According to the University of Michigan Health System, there are five basic issues to explaining child behavior problems. These include, "a new developmental stage, temperament differences such as shyness or inflexibility, the environment as a factor, unfamiliar information for the child, and unmet emotional needs." Parenting inefficacy can also be a factor. Parenting styles can be incomplete or ineffective with certain problems and therefore yield little results.
Effects
Behavior problems in children can effect family, friends and school. It has an impact on the child with the behavior problem as well. If untreated, children may find it difficult to relate well in social interaction, may find they are less successful in school and find themselves entering into risky behavior as they reach adolescence. The behavior problem child adds stress to their caregivers, daily interactions and to the community.
Considerations
Take into consideration the context of the behavior problem. Trauma, divorce, sudden life changes and adjustment issues can play a role in children and their behavior. Behavior problems are not created in a vacuum and therefore should not be treated that way either.
Treatment
When seeking out treatment, remember the age of child, the onset and duration of symptoms and the specific behavior problems being addressed. Basic techniques used can include; behavior modification, problem-solving skills training, social skills training, therapy and medications. A child experiencing tantrums because he do not get his way can be given choices with limits instead of being told what to do, for example. A middle school aged child who tends to lack in peer interaction can engage in role-play with a trained therapist. Speak with a trained professional, she can give the best recommendations for the specific problems being addressed.
