In any household with a single computer and multiple children, conflict is bound to occur. Take a proactive approach to the situation by scheduling times for your children to have time at the computer without a sibling pestering them to get off. By timing your children's computer usage, you teach them valuable compromising and sharing skills while minimizing conflict between them.
Step 1
Decide how much time each member of your family should have each day, including yourself and your spouse. By timing your own computer time, you are setting a positive example to your children and demonstrating fairness.
Step 2
Sit down with your family and the schedule. Allow each person to select the time slot they would like to use the computer. Write each name in the given time slot, and post the schedule near the computer for easy reference.
Step 3
Keep a timer next to the computer. Set the timer at the beginning of each family member's computer session, making sure to end the session promptly when the timer goes off.
Step 4
Reserve extra time slots on your daily or weekly schedule as rewards for positive behavior. For example, give each child an extra 15 minutes if they finish their chores all week, for good grades or if they've done something kind for another family member during the week. Recognizing and rewarding positive behavior encourages your children to repeat those behaviors.
Step 5
Let your kids take control of the schedule and timing as they get older. Letting them create and keep the schedule teaches compromise and responsibility, while making it feel fair to them as they are the ones creating it.
Step 6
Encourage your children to find alternate activities to do while their sibling is on the computer. Allowing your child to sit and watch the other child creates negative pressure and tension.
Things You'll Need
- Printable schedule
- Timer
