If you're fed up with dating all the wrong men, you might wonder how and where to find a nice guy. Dating a nice guy can help improve your self-esteem and mental and emotional well-being. To meet a different type of guy, you may need do take change the places you typically meet potential dates. Before jumping into a romantic relationship, get to know a new guy on a friend level. Observing his behavior toward you and other people can help you determine whether or not he'd make a nice boyfriend.
Step 1
Take time to get to know yourself. Before you go searching for a better romantic relationship, discover yourself first. Spend time with yourself, and allow yourself plenty of time to recover from a past relationship before starting a new one. According to research by Amy Brunell, assistant professor psychology at Ohio State University-Newark, individuals who are truly aware of who they are experience happy, healthy relationships. Work through any emotional or relationship issues with which you may be dealing before diving back into the dating game.
Step 2
Frequent spots where you are likely to find a kind, sincere guy. Visit the library, places of worship, volunteer or charity events, coffee shops or bookstores. These venues are likely to attract men who have attractive qualities, such as intelligence, sensitivity, social conscience, a sense of culture and compassion, according to Oprah Radio host Rabbi Shmuley Boteach.
Step 3
Announce to friends that you are looking for a nice guy. Friends who know your preferences and demeanor are likely to set you up with a like-minded partner.
Step 4
Write a list of qualities you hope to find in a boyfriend. Arielle Ford, relationship expert and author of "The Soulmate Secret: How to Manifest the Love of Your Life with the Law of Attraction," suggests creating a wish list of characteristics you look for in a mate. Consult your list after meeting a new guy to see where he stands. Keep in mind that your heart often leads you to overlook important items on your list. Stick to your list and steer clear of men who lack the qualities you deem important.
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