The Internet can be a rich learning resource for kids, offering them access to all sorts of knowledge and resources at the touch of a button. It can also be a place where predators hide, taking advantage of trusting children. By becoming proactive in your child's online life, you can make sure that he remains safe from online harm.
Privacy
One of the most important rules you can teach your child is never to give away any personal information to anyone she meets online. Predators and fraud artists can get information with seemingly innocuous questions; for instance, asking a child about what she likes to do after school can lead to a discussion about her daily schedule. Kids should report anyone online who seems to be asking too many questions about them.
Identity
It is important that children understand that not everyone they meet online is who they say they are. Some children may find the idea of an adult masquerading as a child online difficult to understand, which can make them easy prey for those who would manipulate them for their own purposes. If your child makes a new friend online, ask for an introduction to that person yourself, and get to know anyone trying to get to know your child.
Access Control
Many Internet service providers offer parental control software as part of their basic service. There are also a number of third-party programs you can buy that will give you some control and knowledge of your child's activities online. These software packages allow you to block sites with adult content or restrict your child to a pre-approved list of safe sites as well as monitor web access, email and even instant messages.
Be Vigilant
Watch for warning signs that a predator may be targeting your child. Evasive behavior when you come near the computer may be a sign that your child is trying to hide something. Watch for an increase in phone activity, as many predators encourage children to call them to discover their number and address through caller ID. Another warning sign may be if your child receives unexplained gifts or correspondence through the mail.
Get Involved
One of the best things you can do to keep your child safe from the dangers of the Internet is to become involved with her online life. Talk with her about her experiences on the Internet, and spend time together at the computer. The more aware you are of what is happening, the quicker you can head off any potentially dangerous situations. Moreover, be sure your child understands that if someone says or does something online that makes her feel uncomfortable, she can come to you for help.
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