Dancing and social norms have come a long way. There was a time when the exposure of the thighs would have labeled someone as a prostitute. Any touching below the neck and above the hips was considered private conduct, but not in club dancing. Nowadays, you will stroll into a club and see gyration and movement without limits. However, proper etiquette in dance clubs still exists.
Step 1
Make eye contact with the girl you desire. Smile at her and look away. Build up the long-distance chemistry for a minute or so. If she smiles back at you, slowly make your way over to her.
Step 2
Introduce yourself and ask to dance. The club will probably be very loud, so further conversation is not ideal at that moment. If she says yes, take her hand and lead her into the heat of the action. She will probably feel more comfortable if she is dancing close to other people.
Step 3
Place both of your hands on the small of her back. If you move your hands up and down, do so along the sides of her body. Suggestive physical moves should always be initiated by her.
Step 4
Add variation to your dancing. If she turns around to dance, don't do the same. Take her by the waist or place your hands across her stomach and mimic her gyrations with your hips.
Step 5
Move your head in closer as the dance progresses. Place one hand behind the back of her head occasionally. Make no attempt to kiss her unless she indicates such. Your foreheads should probably touch before this point.
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