Potty training is not an exact science and the time when it will happen varies greatly from child to child. There are several tips and tricks a mother may use when potty training a boy that when used consistently may make the whole process easier.
Misconception: Boys vs. Girls
One major misconception is that girls will potty train a lot faster than boys. While it is true that they are a bit ahead of the little guys, it is not by much. According to the website Dr. Spock, "In a recent New Jersey study, 70 percent of girls were fully trained (urine and stool) during the day by age three years, compared to 51 percent of boys." It is important to remember that while these numbers reveal something about the difference between boys and girls, you should avoid rushing your little boy as all potty trainers differ.
Consistency
Staying consistent is one of the most important parts of potty training. This is especially true during the early stages of the process. When you begin, try to take your son to the potty at the same time each day and at regular intervals. If he has an accident don't give up, keep the same schedule and with time he will begin to catch on.
Positive Reinforcement
A good way to potty train a boy is by practicing positive reinforcement. One way to do this is by having a reward system. For example, keep a jar of treats handy and when he uses the potty reward him with his favorite candy or cookies. This method will allow him to see that using the potty is a good thing and his behavior will be reinforced in a positive way.
Patience
Remember to have patience with your son. Potty training will not happen overnight. Just like with any skill it will take practice. If he has an accident, it is important not to lose your cool. Continue to praise him for using the potty but avoid scolding him when he does not quite make it. The calmer you stay, the easier it will be for him to see that using the bathroom is a good thing.
Expert Insight
An article published for WebMD Magazine states that your child must be both physically and emotionally ready for toilet training. Most children are ready when they are between 22 and 30 months of age, although every child is different. It is important to begin discussing potty training with your child around this age by reading books or playing games. If you keep in mind that it may be a long process, with time, patience and positive reinforcement your little boy will be well on his way to becoming potty trained.
