To cope with the loss of a roommate, you must take steps to protect yourself personally, legally and financially, according to "Rules for Roommates," by Mary Lou Podlasiak. The reality is that the loss of a roommate--particularly a sudden loss--significantly impacts your life. The situation can become even more severe in the absence of direct action on your part.
Personal
Many people maintain a close, personal relationship with their roommates, according to "My Roommate Is Driving Me Crazy!" by Susan Fee. If a dispute caused the departure of the roommate, you may be better served by spending time with another friend or developing some new friendships than try to resolve issues with your former roommate. You are likely to benefit from developing other relationships after your roommate leaves.
Legal
Legal issues sometimes arise in the aftermath of the loss of a roommate. You should take any such legal issues seriously. For example, you may find yourself facing the prospect of an eviction because you are stuck in a lease agreement that you no longer can afford without your roommate's contribution. If that is the case, consider obtaining legal representation to fully protect your interests. There are lawyers who specialize in landlord and tenant issues as well as disputes arising from the termination of joint tenancy arrangements. The American Bar Association maintains a directory of resources to assist you in finding a suitable attorney to proactively represent your legal interests in when you lose a roommate.
Financial
If your roommate is leaving, seriously consider devising a contract that specifically sets forth any obligations she is responsible for even after she moves out. For example, if you and your roommate are both on a lease agreement, underscore in a separate agreement that she will reimburse you for any additional expenses or losses experienced as a result of her leaving the property before the end of the lease.
References
- "Rules for Roommates"; Mary Lou Podlasiak; 2001
- "My Roommate Is Driving Me Crazy!"; Susan Fee; 2005
