No child always behaves like an angel, but if yours suddenly starts acting out, constantly crying or throwing tantrums, that does not necessarily mean he has transformed into troublemaker. Such red flag behaviors often point to a mental health issue. A number of behaviors in young children are strong indicators of depression, anxiety or stress.
Depression
Some red flag behaviors in youngsters indicate depression, says the Coalition for Children's Mental Health. Depressed babies and toddlers often cry constantly, or not at all. They are often listless and don't seem to enjoy activities upon which other children their age thrive. Constant whining, little or no emotion and little or no interest in social activities are other signs of depression. Once kids hit preschool age, these signs include headaches and stomachaches that have no medical explanation, restlessness and irritability, and no longer finding pleasure in activities they once enjoyed.
Anxiety
A measure of anxiety and fear is part of a young child's normal development, advises Kids Health, but a few behaviors can tip you off that your kid's anxiety has reached a problematic level. Anxiety is often evident when kids are constantly distracted, impulsive, extremely clingy, or have trouble staying asleep or getting to sleep in the first place. Anxious children often twitch or exhibit other nervous behaviors and movements. Unexplained stomachaches and headaches also indicate anxiety, as does nausea, sweaty palms, quick breathing or a racing heartbeat.
Stress
Other red flag behaviors often indicate a child suffers from stress, reports Kids Health. These behaviors often come quickly, and, for a parent who is unaware of the kid's stress levels, out of nowhere. Common signs of stress in young children include sudden bedwetting, mood swings, more stomachaches and headaches, or a kid overreacting, throwing tantrums or otherwise acting up. Stressed-out kids often start lying, having nightmares or start new physical habits like twirling their hair, picking their noses or sucking their thumbs.
Causes
Environmental factors often lead to stress and anxiety, according to Healthy Children, while depression goes a bit deeper. Life changes like the death of a loved one, a parents' divorce, a move to a new area or drastic change of routine often cause stress and anxiety, while constant stress can bring depression. Depression also comes about from chemical imbalances in the brain, like a low level of neurotransmitters, genetics, an ongoing illness and other factors that vary from person to person.
Solutions
Talking to your child is the first place to start with any red flag behavior, Kids Health says. Let her know she is not alone, you wholly support her, and share some of your own experiences with stress or anxiety. Red flag behavior is not likely to stop unless you treat the root of the problem. If talking is not enough, a trip to child's doctor is often in order, advises the Coalition for Children's Mental Health. If warranted, the doctor will refer you to a mental health specialist for further assistance.
