Signs of Lowered Libido

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Most people have a strong desire for intimacy and sexual relations. As the years go by, the sex drive starts to wane, and it is quite common for people to have less interest in sex than they did when they were younger. However, less interest and no interest are two different things. Individuals with a significantly lowered libido may need to consult with a physician in order to get their sex life back on track.

Loss of Sexual Desire

Sex is normally a topic that will be on a person's mind many times throughout a normal day. Those thoughts are often the precursor for sexual desire. But an individual with a loss of libido won't think about how much he wants to have sex any longer. The thought of sex will cross his mind, but the desire to pursue a sexual opportunity will be infrequent or nonexistent.

Reluctance to Initiate Sex

An individual with a low libido may not want to initiate sex. That may have been something the individual had done in the past, but it no longer seems feasible. The desire for sex has waned, so the individual with a low libido has no desire to initiate something that she does not want.

Depression

An individual with a lowered libido level may feel quite depressed. Not depressed over their lack of sexual interest, just depressed about the state of their life. Depression is often a sign of losing one's interest in having an active sex life.

Reluctance to Masturbate

Many individuals who are not sexually active with a partner will masturbate to at least attempt to satisfy their sexual needs. An individual with low libido will masturbate less frequently than he had in the past. Instead of engaging a partner or masturbating, the individual with lowered libido simply has little interest in the act.

Steve Silverman

About this Author

Steve Silverman is an award-winning writer, covering sports since 1980. Silverman authored The Minnesota Vikings: The Good, The Bad and The Ugly and Who's Better, Who's Best in Football -- The Top 60 Players of All-Time, among others, and placed in the Pro Football Writers of America awards three times. Silverman holds a Master of Science in journalism from the Medill School of Journalism.

Last updated on: 10/27/09

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