Despite the physical challenges of backache and morning sickness, the joy of the growing baby is an ever-ready reminder of your coming parenthood. It can also be a somewhat disquieting time, as first-time parents contemplate the changes to come and wonder how best to manage being pregnant. There are thousands of books on parenting, fetal development, naming, diets and almost anything else you can think of with regard to becoming a mom or dad. Amidst this chaos, a few stand out as classics that can help you become a parent.
During Pregnancy
Sitting down with "What to Expect When You're Expecting" by Arlene Eisenberg is a time-honored tradition in modern pregnancy. This hefty tome, in its third edition in 2009, covers almost every aspect of pregnancy. Its diet, however, is a subject of some debate and many expectant mothers find it difficult to put into practice when struggling with morning sickness.
Another classic is the Sears' book, "The Pregnancy Book." The Sears are advocates of attachment parenting, the idea that you should be physically close to your baby and respond immediately to his cries.
Both books can be helpful when managing pregnancy as well as during the first few weeks of your baby's life. They offer information that can help determine your parenting style and what will work best for your family.
When the Baby is Born
"So That's What They're For" by Janet Tamaro is a comprehensive guide to breastfeeding. Best of all, it's funny and takes into account the realities of breastfeeding without engaging in judgment or spending too much time on the dry, scientific discussion of feeding.
Dr. Terry Brazelton's series of books that focus on the touchpoints of a child's development is crucial for every new parent. The first, "Touchpoints-Birth to Three," offers a well-rounded view of what normal developmental stages a child can expect to experience and what a parent can anticipate. The series extends up to the sixth year of life.
For the Baby
A list of baby books isn't complete unless you're adding a few classics to your baby's library. Many parents focus so much on the gear, they forget the simple joy of reading in utero or to the baby during a fussy or quiet time. Two books to make sure you have in your collection are "Goodnight, Moon" by Margaret Wise Brown and "Guess How Much I Love You" by Sam McBratney. Brown's book was first published in 1947 and still works as a lovely bedtime story. McBratney's book is more recent, as it was published in 1995, but presents a beautiful story of a love between a parent and child.
