Genetically, humans are closer to their siblings than even to their parents or children. There is no one with whom you share more commonality when growing up than a brother or a sister. As adults, it is natural and moral to feel a responsibility toward siblings, especially when there are special needs to consider. Watching over a disabled adult brother or sister is especially challenging. Explore ways in which you can care for your disabled sibling.
Step 1
Take time to fully understand the role you accept as a primary caretaker. Much of the quality of life of your brother or sister will be determined by the way you provide for their physical, emotional and social needs. You must be certain that you are up to the task.
Step 2
Learn as much as you can about your sibling's disability. You need to research his or her condition and speak with their physician regarding the nature, extent and prognosis of the infirmity.
Step 3
Look at the finances available to care for your sibling. Gather all the individual's documentation and information regarding disability benefits, insurance, trusts and bank accounts. You may need to contribute monetarily to your sibling's care and might have to ask other family members to help out as well.
Step 4
Determine where your sibling will live. Consider all the options, including the current residence, an assisted living facility, or with you. You need to consider hiring a healthcare professional to assist, at least part of the day, if your sibling is going to live somewhere other than a staffed facility.
Step 5
Set up your sibling's environment to suit their needs. For example, depending on the particular disability, you may need a wheelchair ramp, an adjustable hospital bed, a shower chair or some other type of adaptation.
Step 6
Address the social and activity needs of your sibling. According to the Asme website, you may need more support than family and friends to help meet these particular needs. It is important for your disabled sibling to be able to go out as often as possible and to interact with people beyond those in the residence.
Step 7
Meet frequently with family and friends to discuss your sibling's care. The Family Friendly Fun website recommends holding conferences in which everyone can participate. Direct the conversation by updating everyone on how your sibling is doing physically and mentally. Brainstorm ways you can all help to improve your loved one's life. Let everyone speak from his or her own experience about interactions with the disabled person. Support one another so that you all will function better as caregivers.
