Improving your sex life with your man and enhancing his sexual pleasure involves not only physical moves, but emotional input as well. Communication and understanding between partners increases the pleasure for both parties and keeps things fresh and alive in the bedroom. Some of the most common ways to make sex good for your man involve variety and creativity.
Step 1
Create stimulating visual cues for your mate, which often means donning something sexy or dressing (or not) in ways that you know will rev his engines. For example, try meeting him at the door wearing only a kitchen apron. Men often like to see their women in silky, lacy lingerie, so try that, too. Visual stimulation is what gets most men's motors running, and they need plenty of it.
Step 2
Talk to your mate, and don't be afraid to tell him what you want, and be sure to ask him what he wants. Tell your guy how great he looks, how you love to touch his skin, or show him with your hands. Some guys like to talk, others don't, so pick and choose what you want to say and when to say it for optimal benefits. Communication is vital to all aspects of a relationship, and that goes for in bed as well as out of it.
Step 3
Watch your partner to see the effect you have on him. If you notice him grinning or smiling, you know you're on the right track. Variety is the spice of life, so don't be afraid to try something new as long as you feel comfortable with it.
Step 4
Take the time to explore, touch and massage your man. You'll know when you find an especially sensitive spot by his reaction. Spend some time stroking and touching, teasing and alternating between soft and heavy movements that will increase his pleasure.
Step 5
Choose special locations for seduction. For example, on a warm summer night, try having sex outdoors, in your backyard, in the pool or in the backseat of your car---just choose somewhere different. There's no law that says you have to have sex in the same place every time.
