1. Pick a Pediatrician Early
Babies don't necessarily come on schedule, so having a pediatrician in place long before your baby's due date is a great way to get ready. Babies see their pediatricians within the first few days of going home from the hospital, so most pediatricians offer prenatal consultations. This meeting gives expectant parents the opportunity to meet their child's primary care provider, her associates, nurses and office staff. Babies spend a lot of time at the pediatrician's office in the first few years, so working with someone you trust in a bright, cheery office environment is good for both you and baby.
2. Diapers on the Left, Wipes on the Right
New moms need help the first few days, and having a well organized nursery makes things easier. While you're still feeling good and getting around easily get clothing, diapers and everyday necessities placed in convenient, easy to use locations. Stock your changing table with everything you need close by at diaper change time. Diapers, wipes, baby wash clothes, ointments and alcohol should be within arms reach. Keep changing table drawers stocked with one piece underwear, nightgowns and cloth diapers for quick changes and cleanups.
3. Packed and Ready to Go
Not only do you need to have your nursery ready to go, you need to be ready to go at a moments notice, or when your doctor gives the word. Pack a hospital bag with a change of clothes, house shoes, toiletries and a nightgown for after delivery. You'll only need to plan for one or two nights for a standard delivery, so don't over pack. Keep important phone numbers in the bag, and a few items for the new dad to make his stay more comfortable as well. Have your bag in an easy to reach location so you're not searching for it when the time comes.
4. Take a Hospital Tour
You want to know what to expect when having a baby. Hospitals compete for your business like anyplace else, and want to be sure you're comfortable and well cared for. Check with your OBGYN for information on the hospital where you will deliver. Take a tour and look for things like labor and delivery rooms, where everything happens in one place, and ask about their neo-natal intensive care facilities.
5. Breast is Best
Breastfeeding in the first year is the best way to feed your new baby. New moms get impatient for the process to go smoothly the first time. Take advantage of meeting with a lactation consultant before going home from the hospital. These specialists train in the art of breastfeeding and provide great tips, insights and information on how it works and how long it takes to get it right. It usually takes two or three days for mom's milk to come in. In the meantime the baby is getting nutritious, immunity boosting colostrum from the breast. Learning how to relax, find a comfortable nursing spot and encourage let down are things a lactation consultant can help with.
