1. Is Sex a Bad Word?
It isn't that sex is a bad word or a forbidden act. It is one of the most natural instincts we have. However, it is something that teenagers need to understand and control. All the authority figures are telling them to say no, however, most of the movies, television shows and the media are telling them it is more than OK. By communicating the consequences of sexuality with your teen, it may make her think twice before engaging in sex.
2. Sex and the Teen Relationship
Adolescence is a time when sexuality is surfacing in boys and girls. It is almost impossible to protect your teen from getting her heart broken. Stress can arise when parents or friends don't like her boyfriend or relationships go bad. Confusion can be a problem when your teen is trying to sort through sexual urges, outside influences and sexual preference. Many times, teens will experiment with partners of the same sex, but it doesn't always mean they are gay or bisexual. However, this is the time when many teens figure out their sexual orientation and will seek encouragement, understanding and love from their parents.
3. The Ins and Outs of Teen Sexuality
Although the physical side of sex is obvious, the emotional side may not be. Explain to your teenager that sex doesn't come without emotions and feelings. It is important for your teenager to realize the reasons she may want to have sex. Does she really want it, or is she feeling the pressure from her friends. She could be doing it because she believes that a boy will like her more if she allows him to have sex with her. Explain to her that there are other ways to be intimate with her boyfriend than sexual contact, and she should never have sex until she knows it is the right time.
4. Have Some Condom Sense
Although, we may try to deter our teenagers from having sex, it may happen anyway. If it does, make sure your teen understands the aspects of protecting herself during vaginal, anal and oral sex. Not only is there a possibility of pregnancy, but sexually transmitted diseases and sexually transmitted infections are also a concern. Therefore, oral contraceptives will not protect your teen from acquiring an infection or disease. The best protection from pregnancy, STIs or STDs is abstinence. However, if sex is imminent, encourage your son or daughter to use a condom.
5. Baby, What a Big Surprise
The teen pregnancy rate is at an all time high. Often times, teen girls are afraid to tell their parents they believe they're pregnant. This may delay her medical care and potentially harm her and the baby. Be aware of your daughter's behavior, and if you suspect she may be pregnant, don't ignore the situation. Be careful how you confront her by staying calm, loving and non-threatening. Boys aren't exempt from taking responsibility for their children, even if they are under 18. A simple paternity test will determine who the baby's father is, and he will be responsible to pay at least $50 per month until he's 18, according to the court system. At that point, it will be re-evaluated, and he will be ordered to pay more.
