When a toddler bites someone, it can be upsetting to all parties involved. To prevent a future occurrence, have a discipline plan that will show the toddler that he should not bite anyone. It is not recommended to spank the child or bite him back. This will only perpetuate the violent behavior. Speak to your child's doctor, if you are unable to get your child to stop biting.
Step 1
Remove the child who has been bitten from the situation. Make sure the child who was bitten is comforted and that any wound is treated with soap, water and a bandage, if necessary. Give your attention to the bitten child to let your child know that he will not receive any positive attention for this type of behavior.
Step 2
Point out the feelings that she has caused by the biting. For example, say something like, "Nate is very sad now, because his arm is hurting from the bite." Allow your child to apologize, but avoid an interaction if either party is reluctant.
Step 3
Set a firm no-biting rule. Remind your child that it is not okay to bite and that he is not allowed to do so. Never joke about the behavior. Use a firm voice to explain the importance of not biting. Tell him to use words to express his feelings instead of biting. For example, if the bite was over a toy, suggest that he say, "I want to play with that toy" instead of biting.
Step 4
Consider a timeout, if the toddler repeats the biting. Putting the child in timeout and ignoring him for a set amount of time (typically 2 to 3 minutes) can help curb a repeat biter. When you perform a timeout, pick a spot for the child to sit without any toys or interaction with others.
Tips and Warnings
- Make sure the biting is not caused by teething before you discipline the child. If you suspect this is the cause, give teethers and teething biscuits to help resolve the issue.
