How to Deal With a Bad Coach

A bad coach loves to win, degrades athletes, encourages favorites, talks about athletes behind their backs, crushes confidence, holds personal grudges and parades arrogance. While dealing with a bad coach may not always be easy, you can take actions to help make the most of the situation.

Step 1

Aim to be as patent as you possibly can. Patience can help you keep your mind focused on the game, allow you to maintain your confidence and can help prevent you from talking back to your coach.

Step 2

Control your temper when accepting feedback from your coach. Constant negative feedback may cause you to lose your temper. Listen to what your coach has to say -- but listen selectively. Correct errors in your playing styles, but avoid listening to unnecessary negative comments.

Step 3

Discuss with your coach how you feel about his coaching style. This may awaken him to problems about which he isn't aware.

Step 4

Encourage other teammates to talk to your coach about his coaching style. Consider the power of larger numbers. When more people speak up, your coach may be more likely to realize flaws in her coaching style.

Step 5

Investigate other options in your area for playing your sport. Look for other teams in your area for your age group and skill level. If you are currently playing for your school, find out about playing for a team in your city, township or borough. Consider trying out for all-star teams in your region, depending on your skill level.

Step 6

Tell your coach's boss about his actions. If he treats his players poorly, a player or a parent can file a formal compliant with the athletic board at your school or the association for which you play.

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Article reviewed by Glenn Singer Last updated on: Jul 29, 2011

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