Biting is a common problem in toddlers -- and an embarrassing one for parents. Toddlers bite for a variety of reasons, ranging from simple to more complex. Understand why she bites to help correct this negative behavior. Do so before you end up with the kid other parents refer to as "the biter."
Teething
Some toddlers bite simply because teething is causing them discomfort. Pressure on their aching gums can relieve this pain. If your toddler is biting because of teething, the solution may be as simple as supplying teething toys, cold foods or a frozen teether. Ask your pediatrician whether an over-the-counter pain reliever, like ibuprofen, is appropriate if the discomfort is significant.
Attention-Seeking Act
Biting can be an attention-seeking behavior. Toddlers may bite parents or other caregivers if they feel ignored. Take additional time throughout the day to check in with your toddler, both physically and verbally. While a busy, playful toddler may not make his needs for attention clear, they are still present. Biting to get your attention may increase if your home situation is stressful or there are big changes in her life, like the transition to toilet training or introduction of a new sibling.
Frustration
Little people have big feelings, but often lack the words to express themselves. Frustration and anger can both trigger biting. Help toddlers verbalize what they're feeling and offer alternative ways to express frustration, like hitting a pillow or stomping. Stay close to a toddler who bites from frustration or anger to diffuse the situation quickly, particularly when other children are present.
Group Care
Biting happens more often in crowded group-care situations. Choose a childcare that has a spacious and well-organized area for toddlers or opt for a smaller setting to reduce biting. Find a setting that has rooms separated into play areas for different types of toys and private spaces for children who are feeling overwhelmed by the noise or people. If your child is biting often at daycare, it may be time to shop for a different childcare center.
