5 Things You Need to Know About Teen Dating

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1. Make a Good Impression

Making a good impression is important, especially on your first date. The first thing to do is decide on a good location. The best location will be one that mutually agree on and can enjoy. For a first teen date, lunch is a good idea because it's casual and if things don't work out, you can always leave early. Don't be tempted to grab your usual jeans and t-shirt; dress up a little without being too formal. Be on time -- your date won't appreciate being kept waiting around and may have a change if heart if you're not punctual.

2. One-on-One Versus Group Dating

Group dating has its advantages, particularly early on in a relationship. Going on a date with other friends can help to create a relaxed atmosphere that will put you both at ease. Group dating is also a lively and safe way for you to spend time together.

3. Don't Move Too Fast

Make your date feel relaxed with simple conversation and regular eye contact. You can make your date feel special by letting him know that you are a friend. Don't try to rush things; let the date take its natural course. Don't try to get too intimate too soon; give yourself tome to get to know your date and be sure that you can trust him. Don't forget, dating is meant to be a fun experience, so don't put pressure on your date to do things that she doesn't want to do.

4. Phone Etiquette

You may want to talk to your date every minute of the day, but stop and think for a minute before you reach for your phone to make that call or send a text message. Consider how often you call; you don't want your date to feel they are being stalked, do you? Always be polite on the phone and remember to listen to what your date has to say. If your date went well, it's okay to call and tell him you had a great time. Don't be put oiff f your date doesn't call you straight away to ask you out again. There is nothing wrong with waiting a few days before arranging another date.

5. Don't Commit Too Soon

Make it clear from the start if your relationship is casual or exclusive; this will help you avoid hurt feelings and possible confrontations later. Don't rule out group activities after the first few dates. Get to know each others friends and spend time together with them. That way there won't be any resentment because your buddies are feeling left out.

About this Author

Corinna Underwood is a writer based in Atlanta. Her articles regularly appear in Alive Magazine, After Dark and FOXNews.com. She has also published several fiction and non-fiction books.

Last updated on: 11/18/09

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by chrisk1flyer on July 2, 2008 at 6:49 AM

Great Advice

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