The red-eye flight is the bane of many a traveler's life and adding a small child to the mix might seem like asking for trouble. But if you're traveling with a toddler, flying by night can be a good option because the terminal is likely to be less busy and there's a good chance that your child will sleep through most of the flight. The key is to be prepared.
Seating
Although major airlines allow a child under 2 to travel for free on your lap, an extra seat is a good investment if you want to avoid antagonizing your fellow passengers with a wriggling, squalling child. In this case, you'll also need a baby's car seat or harness that is approved for flight travel. If your toddler is a guaranteed deep sleeper, book a bulkhead seat so that she can snooze in a bassinet bolted to the dividing wall.
Familiar Habits
Settle your child down by keeping as much as possible to his normal bedtime regime. Change him into his pajamas and have on hand a selection of his favorite cuddly toys, picture books, the latest installment of his bedtime story or whatever usually puts him to sleep. During take-off, give him something to suck – even if it's only the corner of a wetted towel – to normalize the pressure in his ears.
Liquids
Air travel can be dehydrating, so take plenty of liquids onto the plane. Milk can be soothing as well as a signal to your child that it's time for a nap. Airport security will permit reasonable quantities of breast milk, formula and baby food. However, definitions of reasonable can vary by airport.
Extras
The most obliging toddlers can have their difficult moments. Be prepared for things to go wrong by packing extra clothes in case of travel sickness, extra diapers, and tasty treats or new toys to ward off tantrums. It can be embarrassing when your child's screams awaken your fellow passengers, but keep calm and focus on your baby. People are likely to be understanding as long as they see you are doing your best to quell the outburst.
