1. You May Save a Life
Children who come into foster homes were taken from their guardian or parent due to neglect or some type of abuse. They may have been in a dangerous and unhealthy situation. Foster parents have the chance to make a difference and can really change a child's life. Possibly, for the first time in a child's life, that child will learn what a stable home life is.
2. Qualifying for Fostering
Each state may vary slightly in their requirements to be a foster parent. State-run agencies along with private nonprofit foster-care programs have requirements in place for potential foster parents. A criminal background check must be completed on every adult living in the home. Foster parents must be over the age of 21. They must have room in the home and have the financial means to take care of the child.
3. Learning the Art of Fostering
After you have completed an application to become a foster parent and have passed a criminal background check, you will need to go through a screening process. Most foster-care programs require an interview. A social worker will also need to check out your home to be sure it is safe and appropriate for fostering a child. Many agencies require foster parents to take a series of classes to help understand what fostering involves.
4. It May Be Rough at First
Children coming into a foster home may be scared and angry. Younger children may be confused and not understand why they were taken from their home. Some children take time to bond with their foster family. Be patient and provide plenty of support. Your foster child may need time to open up and may never discuss any abuse she sustained. Get support from the agency you are working with to deal with difficult situations.
5. When It's Time to Say Goodbye
Although some fostering situations can lead to adoption, the goal of most foster placements is to reunite the foster child with his biological parent. When the time comes to say goodbye to your foster child, it may be with mixed emotions. You may be happy your child has a chance to be back with his parents. However, it's completely normal to feel some sadness and a sense of loss. Talk about your feelings with a family member or friend. Consider staying in touch with your foster child through phone calls and letters.
