When your child is struggling at school, it can be hard to figure out how to get help. The first thing that parents should do (even before there is a problem) is: "Learn everything that you can about your child's school. The more you know, the easier your job as a parent will be," according the the United States Department of Education. By becoming informed about your school's policies and procedures, you will be armed with the knowledge needed to know who to contact and how to go about getting help for your child.
Step 1
Communicate with the teacher. Some school issues are easily solved by good parent/teacher communication. Knowing what the classroom and homework expectations are and being able to support your child's education at home are key to student success. Communicating with the teacher can also give you insight into the nature of the problem at school.
Step 2
Learn the system. If your child has special needs, you need to know what the school offers in terms of support and services. Each state and school system has slightly different systems of addressing student needs. Learn what your local systems are and what your legal rights are in requesting services for your child.
Step 3
Be an advocate. You understand your child best. You know her strengths and weaknesses, and you know what has worked for you. Don't be afraid to make your concerns known to your child's teachers. If you feel that your child needs educational testing or special-education resources, ask for an official meeting to discuss your concerns and your child's needs.
Step 4
Be realistic. Most school and most teachers have a wide variety of students in their classrooms with a wide range of abilities and needs. Teachers do their best to meet the needs of all their students. However, it is not possible for teachers to be everything to every student, and schools do operate under certain constraints. If your child's needs require specialized services, it might be necessary to look at alternative placements.
Step 5
Be positive with your child. Show your child that you recognize when he is working hard. Let him know that you are there to help him.
Step 6
Be positive with the school. Thank teachers who are making an extra effort to help your child.
