If your toddler can climb out of his crib like a monkey climbing a tree, it's time to move him into a bed. Although all children differ in their development, most toddlers are ready to transition from a crib to a bed by the time they are ages 18 months to 3 1/2 years. Remember it's a developmental milestone for your toddler, who may be anxious and worried about the change, so shower him with a little extra TLC, and don't forget to exhibit patience and to offer praise.
Step 1
Decide what type of bed you want, and take your toddler shopping with you. You can use her crib mattress, opt for a toddler bed that comes in the shape of a car or castle, or purchase a regular twin bed with a guardrail. Let your toddler pick her own sheets, pillowcases and comforter. This involvement will make your toddler feel she is part of the decision-making process and will give your toddler a sense of ownership to make the transition easier.
Step 2
Child-proof your toddler's room and other accessible areas of the home, such as the bathroom. If your toddler can climb out of his crib, he'll certainly be able to climb out of his bed. The newly found freedom of getting in and out of bed will give him the opportunity for exploration. If you have stairs, install a safety gate so your child won't get hurt if he decides to wander.
Step 3
Implement a consistent bedtime routine, or continue any routine you have already established. This may involve taking a bath, brushing teeth, reading a book together, praying or some other nightly activity that you share with your toddler. This routine will help your toddler wind down and get ready for sleep, providing soothing consistency when transitioning to a bed.
Step 4
Allow your toddler to keep items that give her comfort. Many toddlers will have favorite blankets, stuffed toys or other inanimate objects that they use for comfort when away from their parents. Let your toddler personalize her bed with these items so it won't feel alien to her.
Step 5
Tuck your toddler in, and let him fall asleep by himself. If he wakes up during the night and comes to your bed, be firm and take him back to his bed. Continue returning your child to his bed as needed, and he will soon realize that he has to sleep in it. Don't shout or reprimand him.
Tips and Warnings
- If you are expecting another baby and want the crib for the newborn, aim to have your toddler settled in his bed at least two or three months before the due date to give your toddler time to adjust to his new sleeping environment. If your toddler is anxious, worried or unsure about moving to a new bed, start with nap times. Once he is used to sleeping in his bed at naptimes, set a date for him to move into his bed permanently. Try using a reward chart. Give your child a star for every night he stays in his bed, and then at the end of the week give him a small treat if he has stayed in bed each night.
- For safety reasons, never place your toddler's bed near a window balcony or blinds.
