Before determining how to potty train your child, it is important to assess whether he is ready. The Mayo Clinic explains that a child should show signs of readiness before a parent begins the act of toilet training. Signs include an interest in the toilet, an understanding and ability to follow basic directions, talking about pee and poop, and asking simple questions. These readiness signs can vary from child to child, but they are generally helpful guidelines as to when it is time to ditch the diapers and begin a method of potty training.
Step 1
Place a toddler potty in the bathroom. Take your child with you every time you use the toilet, and explain to her what you are doing to increase your child's understanding of the potty process. The Mayo Clinic suggests letting your child help you dump the contents of a dirty diaper into the potty to let her know where they belong.
Step 2
Begin a routine of taking your toddler to the potty often. Try sitting him on the potty for several minutes at a time throughout the day. Pull his diaper or training pants down so he can go potty if needed. Stay close to your child so he feels confident. Tell your child he is doing a good job by trying and that soon you will bring him in to try again.
Step 3
Look for signs that your toddler may be soiling her diaper or training pants. She may grab at her pants, squirm, strain, shift from foot to foot or retreat to a private area to pass stools alone. When you see these signs, announce that it is potty time, and take her to the bathroom.
Step 4
Reward your child for trying to use the potty. Even if he has already peed or pooped, it is important to set him on the potty to try. Praise him for trying, and continue the routine of frequent visits to the toilet. You may find success in offering him a reward, such as a trip to the park or anything else that he enjoys.
Tips and Warnings
- Avoid any negative remarks or signs of frustration when your child has an accident. Praise good behaviors, and ignore the more negative ones. Allow your child to run around naked so she can realize what is going on when it is time to use the toilet. This may result in accidents, so it is important to watch your child closely.
- Don't force potty training. If your child shows no interest in all the tactics you have tried, then it may be best to stop and try again in a few months.
