Potty training is a special event and can be a milestone for the entire family. It's one of the last rites of babyhood, right up there with giving up the bottle and the pacifier. There won't be any more diapers to buy or change for the potty-trained child. He'll be happy to be wearing big boy pants and will enjoy being diaper-free. Most preschools require that a child be potty trained before he's allowed into the program.
Potty Chair or Toilet
The process of potty training can be scary and overwhelming to a child. Decide ahead of time if you'll provide a special potty chair for the trainee, or if he'll use the regular toilet. There are pros and cons to both decisions. The big potty can be intimidating to a small child who fears falling through the opening in the toilet seat or being flushed down with the water. Assure him that this isn't an issue, and consider buying a small seat adapter that will make him feel more secure. If you plan to use a special potty chair, have it in place when potty training begins. The downside of this choice is that the potty chair will need to be cleaned after each use.
Timing
Choose the timing carefully when planning to start potty training. It's easier for a toddler to dress and undress in the spring and summer when layers are at a minimum. Make sure the child is old enough to understand the process. Some of the readiness signs are interest when others are using the potty, letting you know when he's urinating or feels like he needs to urinate, and hiding or wanting privacy when having a bowel movement. Choose a laid back time of day to start the process and make sure he's in a cooperative mood. Select a time when you can focus several consecutive days to the process.
Consistency
Make sure to take your child to the bathroom at regular intervals. The potty-training process will be harder if you are inconsistent. Sit beside the potty chair and read with your child, or talk to help her pass the time. Set a timer between visits to the bathroom so you won't forget. Don't have the child sit too long, and don't let the child become frustrated with the process. Some children immediately catch on to potty-training, while others require extra time and practice and lots of reminders. If she doesn't seem ready, reconsider the timing and put the training off for another few weeks or months.
Rewards
Decide ahead of time if you want to reward the child for correctly using the potty chair. If you do decide to use the reward system, be consistent in giving the reward. One small candy treat will be plenty if using the reward system. Children love to be praised for their accomplishments. Consider using praise as a reward for a job well done.
