1. Talk to Your Attorney
The way that you dress can effect how people perceive you. Your attorney may want you to dress differently than you normally would. Don't resist his advice. It reflects his concern over how a judge and possibly a jury will consider you and your case. Trust that he knows what he's doing, particularly if he tells you that a judge will expect you to dress in a particular manner.
2. Avoid Demonstrating Sex Appeal
Don't wear a plunging v-neck or show your legs when you go to court. Wear conservative clothes. A collared shirt with only the first button undone is ideal. Put on pants that hug your curves rather than outline. If you wear a skirt, make sure it covers your knees. Avoid high, stiletto heels or even open-toed shoes. For both sexes, consider wearing a suit or a natty jacket or blazer.
3. Review Your Hair, Makeup, Colors and Jewelry
Don't personalize your clothing with anything remotely gaudy or even eye-catching. Avoid wearing heavy and flashy jewelry. Men should avoid wearing jewelry altogether or should only wear one conservative piece, such as a school ring. Remove any piercings other than earrings and cover up any tattoos. Don't douse yourself in perfume or cologne. Mute your makeup if it's normally heavy. Avoid wearing brightly colored clothes; browns, grays, dark blues and blacks are best for divorce court. Get a haircut and consider pulling it back.
4. Avoid Torn or Stained Clothes
Make sure the clothes you do wear are in good shape. Watch for ripped hems on pants and holes in your knees. Check for moth holes in suits. Make sure there aren't any stains anywhere on your clothes. If possible, launder and iron your clothes or pay to have them dry cleaned. If your clothes are hopelessly out of date or don't fit correctly, ask a tailor to update them.
