Most children are ready to begin the transition from diapers to the toilet between the ages of 18 and 24 months. This is a very general age guideline, and will vary greatly by child. Some babies are toilet trained quickly, while many children are not ready until ages 3 or 4. Potty training can be frustrating, especially if a caregiver has high expectations in getting the job done quickly. With some simple guidelines and plenty of patience, you can potty train your child easily and stress free.
Step 1
Make the bathroom a place your child feels safe. Allow your child to be in the bathroom while you use the toilet. Explain that big kids and grownups go potty in the big toilet. Show your child how the toilet flushes, and let him try so he will not fear the loud sound or think he will get sucked into the toilet.
Step 2
Watch your child for individual signs of toilet readiness, rather than expecting readiness based on her age. Pay attention to signs like an interest in wearing underwear, the ability to express needs, and the ability to go for several hours without wetting her diaper.
Step 3
Purchase the appropriate potty training equipment. Choose a potty seat that will be comfortable for your little one, and that will work in your bathroom area. Select an over-the-toilet cushioned style or a small standalone version, whatever works best for your family. Pick out a sturdy stool that will allow your child to independently wash his hands. Allow your child to choose underwear with his favorite cartoon character theme, so he will want to wear underwear rather than a diaper.
Step 4
Offer incentives or rewards for a potty mission accomplished. Keep a bowl of small treats like M&Ms and stickers out of reach close by the bathroom area. Give your child one reward for "pee" and two rewards for "poop," and no rewards other than positive encouragement for just sitting on the potty. Ensure that these are specific potty treats, and are not something your child would normally receive.
Step 5
Stay positive and calm during potty training. Ignore accidents, rather than reacting in an upset or disappointed manner. Remember that night-time accidents may occur long after initial potty training is established, and diaper your child at bed time. Take a break from potty training if your child is resistant or frustrated, and begin again in a few months or so.
Tips and Warnings
- The best time to place a child on the toilet is 15 to 30 minutes after she eats or drinks.
Things You'll Need
- Potty seat
- Stool
- Small candies or stickers
- Underwear
