Women spend more money on others than they do for themselves, according to "International Business Times" in 2009, but birthdays are a time when others are able to select something special for their mothers. Gifts do not necessarily require spending money. Sometimes the most appreciated gifts are those that provide time for mom or do something that she would be required to do for herself.
Auto Makeover
A special automobile makeover might be the perfect present for a mother who has little time to take care of her car. This detailing might include vacuuming the interior of the carpeting and a trunk, or more complicated detailing involving sealing the plastic or leather in the car. The entire family can assist in this activity. If funds are pooled, take the auto to a professional detailing shop or have the service come to her house or workplace to complete the detailing.
Housework Help
Approximately 60 percent of women in the U.S. work outside the home, and many of these moms assume partial or full responsibility for the household cooking and cleaning as well. As part of a special birthday plan, gift-givers may take on tasks such as washing dishes and clothes or vacuuming the carpet. A special birthday contract included in a card may outline the specific tasks the gift-giver will do and the length of time covered. Select only duties that are within the gift-giver's skills. A gift that requires mom to later re-do or clean up the area is not a special gift.
Night Away from Home
A gift certificate for a night at a local hotel allows mom time alone or a romantic getaway. Time is a precious thing to a working mother, and arranging the time away from home and work to take a birthday trip may require planning, but the gift-givers can assist the birthday mother in rearranging her schedule. Offer to take over some of the scheduled work or arrange with co-workers to help cover job duties so that mom's time will be worry-free.
Day at the Spa
A day at the spa is another special gift to provide individualized services for busy mothers. A gift certificate to a full-service spa allows mom to select from a menu of options that best meet her needs. If the spa is outside the gift budget, make up a basket of spa-type products and arrange for mom to have quiet time to enjoy a relaxing bath or a peaceful facial.
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