Children who care for aging parents may seek a safer, more carefree living situation for them in an assisted living facility. Contemplating this big change is stressful for all family members. Will they be happy? Will they be healthier? As you make your way through the decision process on where to move Mom and Dad, it helps to know what to expect. Understanding what life will be like and which senior care services your parents will enjoy in their new community will make the move easier.
Environment
Housing ranges from small, shared homes to duplexes to apartment complexes. You'll get a sense of the atmosphere by visiting each assisted living facility in person and then "test driving" the best ones with your parents. Interacting with residents, walking the grounds and viewing available floor plans will tell you how comfortable they might be living there. Apartment residences are most common and offer meal service to visitors, another great way to determine the quality of life.
Services
The roster of services varies by assisted living facility. Basics may include meal service, weekly house cleaning and linen service. Those who need a higher level of senior care may get help with bathing, dressing, personal grooming, toileting and ambulatory needs. Pet care, transportation to appointments and shopping, and entertainment opportunities are offered at many communities.
Care
Knowing what to expect if a health emergency arises lends a great deal of peace of mind to parents and family members alike. Most seniors take multiple medications, and caregivers or reminder systems are available to help manage pill dosages and schedules. Many assisted living plans offer graduated levels of licensed medical care, on call 24 hours a day. This allows residents to stay in one apartment as their health conditions change and their needs intensify.
Security
Part of senior care is providing security from theft and physical harm. At most complexes, your parents will have a private entrance with a keyed lock. There may be a security gate or sign-in requirement at the front door---but there should also be an emergency evacuation plan in place. As part of your initial research, ask the rep what to expect regarding building safety procedures. Ask, too, about how they screen caregivers. A good assisted living facility will conduct background checks for new hires.
Cost
According to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, the average cost for assisted living in America is $1,800 per month. Most of these senior care communities are for-profit. Contracts can be confusing, and not all services may be covered. Know what to expect for your monthly membership by going over the details with your rep---before your parents move in.
