Telling your parents that you are dating is not as challenging as you might expect. Most parents prefer that their children be open and honest with them, even when they do not agree with the decisions that they have made. Additionally, talking to your parents about the fact that you are dating may show them that you are mature enough to handle an adult relationship. Keep in mind that although you may feel you are ready to date, your parents may have valid reasons regarding why they want you to wait.
Step 1
Ask your parents ahead of time to have a conversation with you. By making this request, you won't surprise them and you'll give yourself a chance to prepare for your conversation.
Step 2
Prepare for your conversation by listing the reasons you are dating and how you plan to ensure that some of your parent's potential fears are not realized. Your parents may be worried about such factors as lowered grades, less time spent with the family or, in a worst-case scenario, unplanned pregnancy.
Step 3
Speak logically with your parents without losing your patience. Remember that being respectful is a sign of maturity, which is a trait your parents will want to see before allowing you to date or accepting the fact that you are dating.
Step 4
Respect your parent's wishes regarding dating. Even if your parents will not allow you to go out on formal dates, you can still see your boyfriend at school, at church or during group outings.
Tips and Warnings
- Even if your parents do not allow you to go on dates by yourself, they may be willing to compromise and let you go out with a group of friends.
- Arguing with your parents is a sure way to upset them and not be allowed to date.
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