Even very small children can help out around the house. Starting chores early teaches children invaluable skills as well as instilling within them a sense of responsibility. Chores that are age appropriate can help children build self-esteem, learn the meaning of teamwork and form healthy habits for later in life. Although general guidelines exist regarding which chores are appropriate for certain ages, customize your child's role based on his individual skills, interests and development.
Ages 1 to 2 years
At this stage, many children are anxious to help Mommy or Daddy and to be involved in what is going on around them. Although including them in the housework can sometimes create more work for you, it provides an opportunity to let them get their feet wet. At 1 to 2 years of age, most children can easily complete simple tasks, such as putting away toys, sweeping up with a small broom, and wiping clean their area of the table or high-chair tray after eating. Even mimicking Mom with a children's vacuum cleaner can give them a sense of accomplishment without creating more mess.
Ages 3 to 4 years
Children at this age still have some enthusiasm about chores, so take advantage of it while you can. Their cleaning responsibilities can be expanded to putting plastic dishes in the sink, putting their dirty clothes in laundry baskets and helping make the bed. Children in this age range can be kept occupied at the grocery store by letting them put some items in the basket. They can also carry a lightweight bag into the house with just an item or two. Sorting and folding some of their clothes and hanging up some of their outfits can also be incorporated into the daily routine.
Ages 4 to 5 years
This is an opportune time to start letting children get themselves ready more often. They can help pick out their clothes, get dressed on their own and brush their own hair. Dusting furniture, sweeping the floor and cleaning the table are simple tasks for them to do around the house. Expand their duty of picking up toys they've played with to keeping their bedrooms clean. Once children reach 5 years of age, they should be able to make their own sandwiches, fix their own bowls of cereal and clean up after their meals.
Ages 6 to 11 years
Age 6 years is a time for children to start sorting dirty laundry, taking out the garbage and helping put away clean dishes. Feeding pets at set times or walking them in a safe area is also appropriate. If younger siblings are in the house, the older children can help change and feed them. Between ages 8 and 10 years, a child can run his own bathwater, answer the phone and take a message, and help with laundry. Although their abilities are much stronger at these ages, children in this age group generally lose interest in chores and may require some coaxing or rewards for their efforts.
Ages 12 and Up
Once children approach their teenage years, not only do they have no interest in chores, but most of them are opposed to the idea altogether. This may be the time to introduce an allowance based on completion of their assigned duties. Responsibilities suitable for these children include cleaning the bathroom, doing the dishes, making a meal and changing a light bulb. Mowing the lawn and helping with outside yard work is also appropriate for older teens.
