In a study done by Gentile, Lynch, Linder & Walsh in 2004, children play video games for an average of 5 to 13 hours a week. Violent games can have a strong impact on kids. According to Pamf.org, kids who play violent video games are more likely to get in fights, have confrontations with teachers and even show a decline in grades and school work.
Positives
As explained on MediaFamily.org, video games themselves can be positive tools for the development of fine motor and spatial skills. They can also teach children to follow directions and help them improve their memory and problem-solving skills. In addition, video games can teach children how to use a computer and keyboard. Video games can also be used as therapeutic devices with some children. They also provide entertainment and joy.
Aggressive Behavior
The American Psychological Association (APA) has found that video games can increase aggression in children. On his website, Dr. Phil explains that video games teach a child to internalize their frustrations and react violently on someone or something else when they need to vent. Repetition is a form of learning, and because some video games continuously repeat violent actions, aggression can be learned. On the APA's website, Craig A. Anderson, Ph.D. says, "Violent video games provide a forum for learning and practicing aggressive solutions to conflict situations. In the short run, playing a violent video game appears to affect aggression by priming aggressive thoughts."
Impressionable Brains
Children's brains are very impressionable. The National Institute on Media and the Family says that the wiring responsible for self-control and responsibility is still being formed until adulthood. Many games are played in the "first person." This means the player has complete control over the character and sees through their eyes. This can leave a lasting impression on their brains. Some games even glorify gangs, violence, cursing and anger. All of these negative things can help mold a still growing brain.
No Morals Taught
Dr. Phil says that most violent video games do not teach children any morals or consequences for the violence performed in them. In some games, the actual goal is to kill or hurt someone. The character does not get penalized for this; instead, they advance to the next level. Although children aren't likely to go out and kill someone because of this, they are still being taught that in some formats, consequences for violent behavior do not exist.
How to Manage
To manage the effect violent video games have on a child, Mediafamily.org suggests strong parental involvement. A parent should be aware of the rating on their children's video games. The Entertainment Software Rating Board (ESRB) now rates games directly on the box, suggesting what age range it is appropriate for. Avoid purchasing first-person games that involve shooting or killing. Time limits should be placed on game play. Dr. Phil advises parents to find alternate forms of entertainment for their kids. Play board games or go outside and get some exercise together.


