Self-discipline is an essential trait that will help children succeed in life. While this is true for all ages, children have a harder time with the concept because they are used to instant satisfaction, not sacrifice. Although these lessons may require substantial work from the parents, it's important that they foster self-discipline in their children from an early age, so children can learn to make sound decisions.
Step 1
Let kids know in advance that everything they do carries consequences. Although telling them this still gives them the freedom to behave any way they want, chances are they will stop themselves from doing certain things to avoid punishment. Adjust the consequences to the action. The bigger the issue, the more serious the consequence should be.
Step 2
Give children a choice. Children won't learn self-discipline unless they have the opportunity to make choices and decisions. Younger children should have options explained to them so they can understand that some options are better than others.
Step 3
Reward positive outcomes. This concept doesn't mean you should bribe your children. Instead, give praise or additional benefits when things are done right. This way, children will learn to discipline themselves to do a task because the results are pleasant. Don't make all the rewards material, but instead use praise and celebration as well, so the child doesn't always expect an actual "prize" for his action.
Step 4
Enroll your child in sports or a hobby that requires dedication. According to EffectiveParenting.org, sports or activities that require responsibility or dedication build self-discipline. Examples include everything from team sports to art or music lessons to a small job, such as pet-sitting or a paper route.
