Transitioning a toddler from the crib to the toddler bed is a major milestone. Children may climb out, throw tantrums and simply refuse to nap or sleep in their new "big kid" bed. Most children move to a larger bed between the ages of 18 months and 2 years, says the Keep Kids Healthy website. Learn how to keep your toddler in bed by implementing a variety of tips and techniques.
Step 1
Pick out new bedding and the toddler bed together. Purchase new pillows and bedding with your child's favorite colors and characters on it. Place the bed in the room before the transition takes place. Allow your child to get used to the bed and explain to her she will be using it to sleep in soon.
Step 2
Allow your child to take daytime naps in the new bed, but continue to sleep in the crib at night for several days. Move the crib mattress onto the floor to encourage change. Move as many items from the crib to the new bed so your child is with familiar surroundings.
Step 3
Create a reward system for your child. Give a small piece of candy or sticker for every night your child stays in bed. Trade in stickers for a bigger toy prize.
Step 4
Purchase a new stuffed animal or pillow for your child to sleep with. Allow your child to pick out his new bedtime buddy as a special surprise. Explain to him that the new stuffed animal or pillow is a reward for staying in his new bed and will always be there for him at night.
Step 5
Use a night light in the room near the bed. Do not let your child stay in the complete darkness. Leave the door slightly open. Remind your child that the door will stay open as long as she stays in bed.
Step 6
Create a concrete bedtime ritual, suggests Lynne Kenney, parenting expert and author of "The Family Coach Method." Allow the brain to relax at the same time every evening. Have a firm time for bed. Create evening habits, such as brushing teeth, using the toilet, getting a drink of water and reading in bed for 15 minutes.
Step 7
Explain your expectations to your child, suggests Kenney. Tell your toddler what is expected at bedtime and what consequences will occur if the bedtime rules are broken, as well as what will happen if the rules are followed.
Step 8
Continue to place the child back in bed if he gets out. Do not overly explain the situation; simply state, "It's bedtime," and bring the child back to bed. Repeat the phrase every time the child comes out of the bed. After about five attempts, do not verbally acknowledge your child--simply place him in bed each time he climbs out. The process may continue for several hours.
Tips and Warnings
- According to Keep Kids Healthy, children under the age of 6 should not use bunk beds. Avoid making the switch to the big kid bed during a stressful time, such as during a move or the arrival of a new baby.
Things You'll Need
- Bedding
- Pillows
- Stuffed animals
- Candy, stickers or small prizes
- Special pillow
- Night light
