Sociopaths represent 4 percent of the population and can not be readily distinguished from any other people based on appearance alone. It is not uncommon to meet or even be in a relationship with a sociopath at any point in life. The sociopath typically blends into society, maintains employment and appears to have relationships with others, although the underlying pathology is very different from an average human being. Several characteristics distinguish a sociopath from a non-sociopath.
Cold as Ice
One of the most distinguishing characteristics of a sociopath is how he relates to others. Although able to exude charm, wit, attraction and sexual behavior, the sociopath is void of the genuine ability to emotionally connect with other human beings. Sociopaths often seeks relationships with people who have something to offer, such as money, material goods or status. The relationship serves a means to an end for the sociopath, and manipulation is a valuable asset for obtaining what the sociopath desires when the partner in the relationship withholds. Love is not an option for a sociopath, however this typically isn't clear to the relationship partner until after the sociopath has left the relationship for a better option. When relationship conflict occurs, the sociopath's goal is to manipulate the partner into feeling as if the conflict occurred due to her own fault. A sociopath rarely takes any responsibility for disagreements.
Ruthless
When the sociopath negatively affects another person, she feels no guilt or remorse for what she has done. Sociopaths express no care or concern for others. This is due in part to a tremendous sense of entitlement. A sense of narcissistic grandiosity exists within the sociopath, however she gains no insight when this is pointed out. Often, the sociopath will utilize her skill of manipulation and inflated self-importance to suck others into schemes for making money that ultimately only benefit the sociopath if successful.
Living on the Edge
The sociopath has a continuous drive toward excitement and risk-taking. Impulsive behavior and poor inhibition control result in numerous ventures for the sociopath but also consequently lead to damage to others in the wake of the poor behavior control displayed. When negative ramifications occur, the sociopath takes no accountability. On the rare occasions they are exposed for what they are, sociopaths typically relocate and begin the manipulation game again.
