4 Ways to Impress a Girl

1. Express Interest in Her

It sounds fairly basic, but people of both genders tend to make the mistake a lot. When you have a conversation with a girl, let her talk. Listen and hear what she has to say and ask follow-up questions. When she asks about you, respond openly, but briefly (a few sentences), and then redirect the conversation back towards her. It helps her to open up and it also signals that you find her interesting.

2. Respect Her Opinions

Even if you don't agree with something a girl says, acknowledge her right to say it. Don't interrupt when she speaks, but rather wait until an appropriate pause in the conversation before replying. When you disagree, do so politely, with courtesy and respect. This extends to her friends and family as well. Refrain from criticizing someone in her circle and certainly don't criticize her, even teasingly. As the relationship develops and respect and trust become stronger, you can speak more openly about places where your opinions differ. But even then, you should show her respect. It signals that you value her and will give her the space to express herself to you.

3. Show Confidence, Not Arrogance

It can be difficult when you're attracted to someone not to be nervous or full of anxiety. Relax. She's likely to be nervous as well. Dress well, stay clean, and walk with assurance. When you speak, don't sound as if you're apologizing. Know who you are and remind yourself that you're someone worth getting to know. At the same time, when you present yourself, stay away from excessive boasting or overt efforts to impress her. A little humility and modesty can go a long way. You may have things that you're proud of, and she will find out about them as the relationship progresses. Let her discover them at her pace, rather than thrusting them at her and expecting respect.

4. Don't Play Games

No one likes feeling as if they're being jerked around. If you say you're going to call her on a given day, don't wait until a few days later. If you set a date, don't show up half an hour late. One school of thought says that such tactics "increase her interest in you." In truth, it demonstrates a lack of dependability, a disregard for her feelings, and a sense that you are taking her for granted. None of these things will impress her. Be honest in your dealings, strive to meet your appointments with her on time, and if something comes up preventing you from making it, then call her and let her know as soon as possible.