When you've made the decision to bring your family to a family counselor, you might not know what to look for in a good therapist. Whether you're looking for someone to help you become a better communicator with your family, or you're hoping to work through some bigger issues, your family counselor becomes your partner in the success of your family. Interview a number of family counselors to find the one who will work best for you and your family.
Step 1
Visit the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapists' website. There you can search for a number of AAMFT clinical members found in your area. The AAMFT has stringent qualifications for its members, making it a good place to start. Pick at least three counselors that you can do a phone interview with.
Step 2
Call the counselor's office and ask the receptionist a few questions. If you can, ask to speak directly to the counselor. First, ask about the counselor's education and training. According to an AAMFT Consumer Report, a qualified counselor will have a master's degree in psychology, specializing in marriage and family therapy.
Step 3
Ask how long the counselor has been in practice. A counselor with at least five years clinical experience is best. Ask also what types of families the counselor usually sees, and what type of experience he has in the type of case you'll be bringing to the table. Whether it is a catastrophic event your family is getting over, or just needing to improve your family communication, choose a counselor who is equipped to handle your family.
Step 4
Find out what type of treatment options are available. Some family counselors prefer to see the families together, while some like to break family members up into individual sessions. Depending on what you are looking to achieve through counseling, you may be more comfortable with one or the other. Ask what a general counseling session will be like.
Step 5
Inquire about the average length of treatment, suggests Metanoia.org. Some counselors like to work on a schedule, and have you and your family embark on a six week treatment plan. Other counselors may choose to place your family in treatment until they feel you've accomplished what you've needed, without a set schedule. Choose the counselor with the treatment plan you believe will work best.
