Self-esteem is an individual's estimation of his own worth in relation to others and, consequentially, affects how he expects to be treated in the world. Therefore, a person's level of self-esteem will largely impact how he chooses to approach, behave in and respond to various circumstances that arise in life. Self-esteem develops very early. For this reason, it is important that children have the opportunity to participate in activities and behaviors that nurture high levels of self-esteem. This will allow them to develop a strong sense of self-reliance and confidence in their abilities to do well.
"About Me" Poster
Roll out a 48-inch wide sleeve of poster paper on the floor to a length equal to the height of the child participating in the exercise. Have her lie lengthwise on the paper, and use a marker to trace her frame. When finished, cut out the silhouette left behind, resulting in a life-size poster mock-up of the child. Ask her to draw or write something that depicts what she likes most about herself somewhere on the figure. If other children are in the room, have them take turns writing down a positive quality they believe the child of interest posses. Encourage her to write several more things that she likes about herself on various parts of the image. When finished, advise her to hang the poster on her bedroom door so that each time she enters or leaves the room, she can be reminded of these positive traits.
Path of Self-Esteem
Line up two rows of children, standing shoulder-to-shoulder, with one line facing the other. Have a child from one end walk the path created between the lines. As he does so, encourage the other children to offer him cheers, words of praise, pats on the back or any other form of positive reinforcement. Upon completing the course, have the child take his place at the opposite end of the line from which he started. Have all of the children take turns walking down the path until they have all done it several times. This activity will help each child feel better about himself, create a greater bond within the group and allow everyone to experience what it's like to give positive reinforcement to others, as well as receive it.
Mock Job Interview
Have the child imagine what she would like to do or be when she gets older. No matter what her response, have her pretend that today she will apply for this job. After giving her a few moments to prepare, start the interview by having her state the qualities that she believes make her a perfect candidate for the position. Encourage her to elaborate on any topic you feel she covered too lightly. By making these positive, distinguishing characteristics known to you in this way, she will also revivify them in her own experience.
