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Member Comments
By Anonymous on March 17, 2010 at 05:58 PM
I met someone on saturday night...
he called 5 times on sunday and 2 times yesterday... i think its a way to go!
By Anonymous on March 17, 2010 at 05:17 PM
I just say its all in its own time... Everyone wants someone even the one that doesnt wany anyone wants someone. But as long as you dont seclude yourself from the world you'll all be fine... especially coming to this website wanting a healther and more active life... it should be a problem.. dont be something or someone your not and make sure if you do get attentiong its for who you are and not soemthing else
By Anonymous on March 17, 2010 at 05:18 PM
shouldnt** sorry
By Clgordon on March 17, 2010 at 11:37 AM
I love the line: The only reason why you arn't my girlfriend is because I can trust you more... cause your not my girlfriend... FML...
By Muche on January 20, 2010 at 02:59 AM
There is this girl in my club that I like. On Sunday while we were taking a walk with a group of friends, she wraped her around my biceps. I didnlt read much into it but now I start to wonder if that was a sign that she likes me.
By Anonymous on January 21, 2010 at 08:40 AM
honey, if a girl is being attached to you, it means she is digging you. that or there just trying to show off, but my guess is, by the way it sounds, she is really liking you.
By ruthiet_456 on January 22, 2010 at 03:19 PM
i agree with anon
By Anonymous on March 11, 2010 at 02:44 PM
Dont be so naive! Of course she likes you! Woman are obvious with these things
By atlantaluxe on February 27, 2010 at 11:33 AM
I am ready for something significant with someone special. There is someone I know who I am suited well for, unfortunately he was married for 12 years and has been divorced for 2.... not the same as trying to get to know someone who has never been burned by love...
By Anonymous on March 11, 2010 at 01:03 PM
Don't be afraid of that. My new boyfriend was married for 26 years. He is a little shell shocked of course about it all but it passes and I think they all will take that second chance. Besides it sounds like a lot of time has passed since then...GO FOR IT GIRL!
By iwishonstars on January 10, 2010 at 04:03 PM
When I went out to lunch today, my waiter was really cute. I would have left my cell phone number on the receipt but my mom was with me and she would have lectured me on it.
By Anonymous on March 11, 2010 at 01:01 PM
Oh god I did that once and an unknown number text me.....it was my ex husband who I thought could be the guy from the restaurant...DEAD wrong...I was like "Is this the cutey from the restaurant?" and he was like completely playing along it was awful.
By Emsmom96 on November 24, 2009 at 05:09 AM
ok. I took the kids for dinner to a place here in town that we've been going to for years. I smiled at someone. He missed it. Unfortunately, it seems the only men attracted to me are 20-30 years older than me and well, yikes. The older gentleman (and I use that term loosely) who is also the owner of the establishment, was sitting behind the guy I smiled at and it just went downhill from there. Last night the he decided to inform me that I'd be eating and drinking for free if I'd just...(insert pervy suggestion here. Any and all apply) yeah. Color me frustrated. And a little grossed out. I think what irritates me most though is that now I have to find a new bar. Crap. Silver lining? The burger was mighty fine. And now my kids have something else to make fun of me about. Good times.
By ruthiet_456 on November 24, 2009 at 02:03 PM
Doesn't it suck when men have to resort to being a**holes in order to be noticed? Why can't they just give a compliment and be on their way?? Sorry you have to find a new bar...
By azoutte on January 13, 2010 at 12:36 PM
So the message I take from this is I need to buy a cafe, put morality on hold, sit back and meet lots of hungry chicks. Drat! All I have is computer skills and history has proven that those aren't enough...
By ruthiet_456 on January 13, 2010 at 01:52 PM
Hey azoutte- ever try smiling? That goes a long way...
By Anonymous on March 11, 2010 at 12:58 PM
Hes not very smooth is he? Older men can be great if they just werent so gross. I got a good one :)
By tltalty on January 31, 2010 at 02:45 PM
I had a bad dream about an old relationship today. It made me feel lonely and jealous.
By Anonymous on March 11, 2010 at 12:49 PM
Dreams always have an underlying meaning to them. I had a dream about my ex husband and apparently (as the radio talk show dream interpreter tells me) he didnt represent him at all in the dream...it was symbolic...your dreams speak in metaphor and it makes alot of sense. I still dont believe in psychics LOL
By wantobefitgirl1 on February 22, 2010 at 01:23 PM
still trying to find that special someone who has the same interests as me
By Clgordon on February 19, 2010 at 11:09 AM
keeping my eyes open...
By Clgordon on February 17, 2010 at 02:18 PM
still single tho...
By Beth_Petersen on February 16, 2010 at 02:06 PM
I guess for me lonely yes but not unhappy I love my life it just gets tough when you have no one to share it with and guys well they take off running when you add kids to the equation :) To me all I am lookin for right now is a friend to share things w/ :)
By Clgordon on February 11, 2010 at 05:12 PM
Tomorrow... Dinner with the guy I have been "seeing" off and on for 6 months... but seriously starting to think about moving on... GAH!
By myway2222 on February 11, 2010 at 02:33 PM
Been chatting(texting)an old friend, we will see where it leads. Right now its just talk.....
By billiejean2009 on February 10, 2010 at 12:45 PM
I'm a 20 year old female. I'm mostly satisfied with my looks, I'm intelligent, not a whore, pretty funny, VERY laid back, in college, and I'm confident in myself most of the time. So WHY is it so hard to find a guy that actually wants to know me for me? I'm either just wanted for my looks or I'm a friend. And when I say my looks, I don't mean that I'm some supermodel (because I am definitely not that). But guys I meet aren't INTERESTED in me for who I am, just for what they might get out of me. And I don't give these guys the time of day.
I'm starting to think that being in college IS the problem because no one wants anything committed, or at least even a BIT committed. I don't even want anything super serious or necessarily long-term.. but I don't want a stupid, shallow, casual hook up either. I at least want to be WITH someone who values me, spends time with me, and who I can be in a relationship with for some time so we can share things together and grow and learn, etc. So WHY is that so hard to find?!
Anyone have any insight?
By ChadMartin on February 11, 2010 at 11:32 AM
Look outside your box. Sometimes the perfect person is standing at a distance.
By myway2222 on February 10, 2010 at 10:31 AM
Had to work from 530am to 8pm.....
By Anonymous on February 5, 2010 at 11:20 PM
It's hard to find someone when you don't put yourself out there. I tend to stick to my shell for fear of getting hurt. I know the only way to truly live is to live with no fear but it's easier said than done.
By kittykat29 on December 3, 2009 at 10:45 AM
Ok, so, im still waiting for my prince charming, and let me tell u it has not been easy! I can accept im not confident enough to make a move on any guy... I still think that they base their search only on looks, i mean, we all do that at some point anyways, even me. But women are more open to start getting to know someone if that person is enjoyable, or at least can mantain a really good conversation. Guys can do that, but they just classify you in the "forever friends and only friends" zone, if you are not skinny or beautiful in the outside, at least for their opinion... Im extremly dissapointed =(
By ruthiet_456 on December 3, 2009 at 02:16 PM
Don't give up kittykat. The right guy for you is out there. Just need to keep an open mind and keep looking. Also, prince charmings are overrated.
By kittykat29 on December 8, 2009 at 09:19 PM
Tnx ruthiet_456. I also say that prince charmings are overrated, that's why i dont want mine blue, lol!
By Anonymous on February 1, 2010 at 01:10 AM
Yes , I m a Man n facing the same....Can we friend...
By iwishonstars on February 1, 2010 at 05:17 PM
I agree with you completely!! I am so frustrated with guys. I am always classified in the friends zone or just sex zone (even if I don't put out). The next guy who says "If I didn't have a girlfriend, I'd date you" better be prepared because I will flip out. I wish for one day to be a guy just to see what it is when they see me.
I just keep hoping that there is some guy out there who is very similar to me and can see past the superficial BS.
By tiff101057 on January 20, 2010 at 06:15 AM
Been single for so long it's not even funny anymore. I don't want to become the lonely dog lady. But it really hit bottom now that my daughter is dating!!! So I pledge to take pride in MYSELF....hopefully this will help.
By Anonymous on February 1, 2010 at 01:09 AM
Yes , I m a Man n facing the same....Can we friend...
By AntiFrenchFry on January 23, 2010 at 08:18 AM
I've been single for ever.. well not really, but everytime I find someone I'm interested in and whos interested in me, I get scared.. and break it off.
It's time that I go head first into the world and find the man for me.
By Anonymous on February 1, 2010 at 01:09 AM
Yes , I m a Man n facing the same....Can we friend...