This group is for those ladies who are really thick and need some confidence. It is hard to look int he mirror and not like what you see. How do you stay motivated to lose weight when you feel like you are going to be this way always. Lets help each other stay motivated....This is a mental fight as well as a physical fight with our bodies. Ladies no matter how PLUS we are we definitely must feel pretty lucious and ultimately sexy.
I'm really trying to stay focused and motivated. Some men are very cruel and I'm tired of being looked down on or bypassed because of my weight.
People can be cruel period. I try to tell myself that their opinion shouldn't matter and the only one that should matter is my own and how I feel about myself. People judge by the outside package and don't take time to find out what wonderful stuff is underneath..We have to find people who love us for us..and the others don't matter.
Wanda
I am new to this group but I have read the posts on here and I just want to say that you all are beautiful people and that people can be very, very cruel but only god can judge. If those people judge you then they may have insecurities of their own also. I was once concerned about how men would look at me because I am a thick woman but I learned to love myself and accept who I am. When I lose my weight it will be for me and not because of what other people think of me, Hawna, you are right about what you said and that special person will love you both for who you are and I do not know you personally but you are beautiful to me already, take care of yourself, love yourself, If you believe in god build a personal relationship with him and It will all fall into place.
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