Gold Member Badge


  • You're all caught up!

What Does it Mean to Cherish Your Spouse?

author image Sharon H. Bolling
Sharon Bolling holds a master's in counseling and human development with a concentration in school counseling from Radford University. She is an experienced instructor of both high school and college students. She has been writing for Demand Media online since April 2013.
What Does it Mean to Cherish Your Spouse?
A bride and groom kissing during their wedding. Photo Credit: Maria Teijeiro/Digital Vision/Getty Images

Many husbands and wives repeat, "to love and long as we both shall live," each year during their wedding vows, but what does it really mean to cherish each other? defines the word "cherish" as to hold or treat as dear, to feel love for and to care for someone tenderly. So, what does it look like to cherish your spouse?

Video of the Day

Value Your Spouse

The way you cherish your husband or wife is unique to your relationship. Show your spouse that you value them. Remembering what it is that you cherish, even in the most difficult of moments, may help you stay focused on the positive elements of your marriage. Construct a list of what you love about your spouse and why you cherish him or her, suggests Dr. Greg Smalley, in his article on

Protect Your Marriage

Honoring your vows and relationship shows that you view your spouse as a priceless treasure, says Smalley. Safeguard the intimate and emotional bonds of your marriage. Seek comfort from each other, openly communicate your feelings, give each other the benefit of the doubt and remember all you mean to each other. Protect your relationship from negative outside influences and put your marriage above your job, friendships and leisure activities.

LiveStrong Calorie Tracker
Lose Weight. Feel Great! Change your life with MyPlate by LIVESTRONG.COM
  • Gain 2 pounds per week
  • Gain 1.5 pounds per week
  • Gain 1 pound per week
  • Gain 0.5 pound per week
  • Maintain my current weight
  • Lose 0.5 pound per week
  • Lose 1 pound per week
  • Lose 1.5 pounds per week
  • Lose 2 pounds per week
  • Female
  • Male
ft. in.


Demand Media