Female Orgasm

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Overview
Orgasm is the point at which all sexual tension is suddenly released in a series of involuntary and pleasurable muscular contractions that may be felt in the vagina and/or uterus (although some women experience orgasms without contractions). Orgasm is reached through copulation or masturbation.

During orgasm the body stiffens and the muscles contract. Involuntary muscle contractions and spasms may occur in various parts of the body, including your legs, stomach, arms, and back. The muscles of the vagina relax and contract rapidly, as do the muscles of the uterus. The glands of the vagina discharge a watery secretion, which acts to lubricate the vagina.

The main physical changes that occur during a sexual experience are a result of vasocongestion. This is the accumulation of blood in various parts of the body. Muscular tension increases and other changes occur throughout your body also.

Many women have multiple orgasms. Masters and Johnson documented this occurrence more than 25 years ago. Theories suggest that muscular contractions associated with orgasms pull sperm from the vagina to the cervix, where it's in a better position to reach the egg. Researchers believe that if a woman climaxes up until 45 minutes after her lover ejaculates, she will retain significantly more sperm than she does after non-orgasmic sex.

The difference between a "clitoral" and a "vaginal" orgasm has to do with where you are being stimulated to achieve orgasm, not where you feel the orgasm. The clitoris has a central role in elevating feelings of sexual tension. During sexual excitement, the clitoris swells and changes position. The blood vessels through the whole pelvic area also swell, causing engorgement and creating a feeling of fullness and sexual sensitivity. Your inner vaginal lips swell and change shape. Your vagina balloons upward, and your uterus shifts position in your pelvis.

For some women, the outer third of their vagina and the cervix are also very sensitive, sometimes even more sensitive than the clitoris. When the G-Spot is stimulated during intercourse or other vaginal penetration, these women do have intense orgasms. This would be what is referred to as a vaginal orgasm -- without clitoral stimulation.

For information on how to masturbate, click here.

To find out more about the male orgasm, click here.

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Last updated on: 11/18/09

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by okkaokka on March 5, 2009 at 1:41 AM

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by kafhd on March 21, 2009 at 10:11 AM

I Sometimes Have to fake it with my partner? why can't he do that?

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by HarryMete on July 19, 2009 at 8:49 AM

Because no one taught him the technique. Here's a G spot resource for him: http://1stop4femaleorgasms.com/blog/2009/07/13/g-spot-success-story-from-woman/

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by Mr-Manpower on July 10, 2009 at 2:18 PM

Good information...its funny...some women prefer clitoral orgasms over vaginal orgasms, but my girl prefers vaginal orgasms from penetration much more.

I explain how I gave my girlfriend multiple orgasms in my blog...pass by and let me know what you think:

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by Mr-Manpower on July 10, 2009 at 2:19 PM

Oops...link didn't work:

http://mistermanpower.net/blog/?p=213

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by Tracsee on July 21, 2009 at 10:11 AM

We all have something to learn to be better in bed, but the rewards are worth it. I have found most useful information on female orgasm from the welcomed consensus here http://www.welcomed.com/femaleorgasm/femaleorgasm.html. It's just not knowing the right stroke or formula that works for every woman, it's about her and her body and the partner feeling what to do in the moment as both people have their attention on one person's pleasure. So fun and changed mu sex life from non-existent to GREAT!

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by ndru on August 6, 2009 at 8:57 AM

vaginal orgasms are way better, at least thats what my GF says.
for good vaginal stimulation man needs a decent penis girth, length isnt that important

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by Chris233 on October 18, 2009 at 1:22 PM

I found a great guide about Female Orgasm.

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by KathyJo61 on November 17, 2009 at 8:00 PM

I had the best best orgasm last week with a Guy licking and fingering My clit at the same time OMG! It was amazing!!!! I have never had intercourse yet, and I wonder it a penis could feel as good as that? I want to wait cause Im afraid of STD.s and getting preg.

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by kiterpilot on November 19, 2009 at 5:16 PM

Dr. Patti Taylor, an expert on female orgasm, has a fabulous course for couples on expanded (also called extended orgasms). After completing the course and fully learning the material it is common for women to have 30 minute orgasms. There are two really important parts to this. The first is that women have to know that it is possible. The second is that men need to know the technique. I believe all married couples should know about this because women are really, really happy when they are having 30 minute orgasms on a consistent basis. More info here: http://expandherorgasmtonight.com

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by Archcaine on December 9, 2009 at 7:42 AM

I am not sure where I should be asking this but this seemed like the Most Likely place to ask it. I am Deeply in love with my girl freind , and she happens to be 25 and a still a virgin in the way of penetration. We mess around in other ways, but i'm very worried because she seems to be in pain when I use my tounge or even my fingers to slighty touch her Vagina. I move very slow and know what I am doing when it comes to this type of stuff. I've had alot experince but I am unsure how to make her feel good if she is so sensitive that even a lick hurts. Anyone have any suggestions on what I can do for her? I care to much for her to not try everything I can.

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by brijesh on December 18, 2009 at 8:16 AM

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by Chris233 on January 4, 2010 at 7:14 AM

I wanted my girl friend to have multiple orgasm everytime we had sex so I searched for tips online. I found a FREE Blog about Ultimate Female Orgasm.

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by candishale on January 28, 2010 at 10:27 AM

Here's a great article about the G-spot! http://www.femaleorgasmsecrets.com/abcsofthegspot.html

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by emmydux on February 4, 2010 at 6:39 AM

Ok, I wouldn't say I think there are 2 different orgasms, as it seems there are a lot of people who believe the clitoris extends through to be accessed via the vaginal wall. What I will share is that looking for information on this topic I came across a YouTube (?!) demonstration on how to achieve the so called Gspot orgasm, which I of course experimented with and was very excited to find I had an orgasm first time within a couple of minutes following the directions (actually, while watching the video). It was very direct and to the point info and I am yet to try it out with another person involved/present, but I am so so happy I've finally DONE it some way other than clitorally and I plan to 'practice' by myself the fingering plus the bearing down I have read a bit about (I found pushing/clenching in waves helped).
here is the video link, plus words to put in to youtube if the link doesnt work. The video you see is of a gloved hand with a wood table top background. Honestly, this has changed my thinking completely on whats possible for me now. (due to the topic, youtube will ask you to set up an account, took me 1 minute).
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A5ivkikPtjo OR type

Female orgasm | G spot | female ejaculation | squirting | Demonstration into YouTube search.
good luck!

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by tanay2035 on February 11, 2010 at 7:39 AM

Many girls find it far easier to orgasm from multiple stimulation than from vaginal stimulation alone. Take advantage of this fact, as her legs will be wide apart, pulling apart her vagina lips and giving you perfect access to the clitoris. Make sure you put a lot of saliva on your fingers first, though, to avoid any unpleasant feelings for her. Something I've found that works even better is to get her to do it, putting your hand over the top of hers initially to guide her if necessary. When she sees herself doing it in the mirror I guarantee she will go absolutely crazy and have one of the most powerful orgasms she's ever had in her life!
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by tanay2035 on February 11, 2010 at 7:40 AM

The mind of the woman also plays an important role in every sexual encounter. It is indeed significant in achieving an intense female orgasm. Therefore, you should condition her mind and work on her mood before you could ever bring her to a sensuous climax. An aroused state of mind is usually followed by a multi-orgasmic experience in sex and she will definitely love you more for this success.
Some women can achieve intense female orgasm easily while some don't. There are certainly reasons why such things happen. Being the partner, you can give essential contributions to help her come in a manner that she won't forget.
http://bit.ly/g-spot-sex-manual

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by codmw2 on February 13, 2010 at 1:59 PM

i luv u girls out there.. i promise ill giv u the best orgasm u evr experienced and will cum bak for more

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